My husbands best traits have not changed. He wasn't the kind if man I would normally approach. Over time he's grown on me. Financial responsibility, communication, teamwork, and trustworthiness. Early on I noticed how kind he is to animals and hardworking community members. He doesn't mind me running the house, and always helps out when I need it. He challenges me to try new things outside the home, and doesn't criticize my Mothering instinct.