No prenup because we are both devout catholic and death is preferable to divorce. The only agreements we made were verbal and based around the split up of child rearing and household duties, the number of children we want (a lot and we are about halfway through already) and how we would deal with certain problems in the future (parents growing old and needing care, etc). The mindset is simple: marriage is for life. Planning for it to fall apart means that you are willing to accept the marriage falling apart as an outcome. It is not acceptable. You must both consistently work hard so that outcome takes no root. If she does not agree with you on this, don’t bother. Seriously. Divorce does not only curse you into misery for the rest of the life, it curses your children for many many generations after. Our current societal decline is almost completely tied to the breakdown of the family, orchestrated by the agents of Satan, the Jews.