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My daughter's dad said he was going camping. Lol. Yet, he's not a camper. His phone has been making a weird sound all week like he left the country. We're not together, though we do get along and chat occasionally. Personally, I think he's out of the country.

And as far as my own dad goes, he's in Florida. I'm in California, though I wasn't born here and will be leaving permanently soon.

So, no dads on father's day in my home.

Yet, I just made a lovely dinner for my daughter and I still had a nice day.

What about you?

My daughter's dad said he was going camping. Lol. Yet, he's not a camper. His phone has been making a weird sound all week like he left the country. We're not together, though we do get along and chat occasionally. Personally, I think he's out of the country. And as far as my own dad goes, he's in Florida. I'm in California, though I wasn't born here and will be leaving permanently soon. So, no dads on father's day in my home. Yet, I just made a lovely dinner for my daughter and I still had a nice day. What about you?

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I wish I could. My mother's an over bearing big mouth and he won't leave her side for more than 10 minutes.

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I understand. My dad remarried and his new wife even speaks for him. It's annoying.

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My dad is long dead, as well as my only child, so no...

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Oh, wow. I'm sorry to hear that. I too have one child. I couldn't imagine what that would feel like.

Blessings your way. 🙏

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Thank you. Don't feel bad for me, I wasn't very close to either of them. I was kind of a dissapointment to my dad. I figured out early that I would probably never be able to do anything well enough to suit him, so I gave up trying. It seemed that my older sisters could do no wrong though, so that didn't help. My dad was killed by a drunk driver when I was an 18 YO Marine in Viet Nam. My son's mother made seeing my son pretty much impossible. I usually had no idea where he was. He knew what was going on, so when he was grown and away from his mother he reached out to me and we were really getting to know one another. Then he died from a drug overdose. It is still unknown if it was accidental or intentional. You know what they say, life's a bitch and then you die!

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Again, that's tragic. But, you're not alone in tragedy if that's any consolation. At least you got to meet him.

I've had my own horror stories though I'm not as brave as you to share. It does help to talk though. Here if you need to talk. Im a mom. Older than some. Though I still feel young. :) 🙏

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I spent my first Father’s Day alone working in our backyard while my wife and our baby were inside, because she wants nothing to do with me. Good times

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I'm so sorry u p hear that. Maybe, she's just hormonal? I was weird according to my babies daddy whose a dr., I was very amorous after I gave birth, but according to him that's not normal?!

Hopefully, things will change and she'll feel herself again soon. Be patient, if you can. Having a baby does strange things to the body.

Blessings your way. ;)

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I hope Father's Day went great for you :) I'm on my way to visit my parents again. We had a great afternoon and night yesterday.

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BTW, I bet I know one of the reasons you're returning home today, lol. It's your mama's cooking or leftovers. ;)

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I like this song too. Black Velvet https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tkXNEmtf9tk

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Ok.. Sweet heart, this song is like mama's era. That was me before you were born or when you were just born. I was of age in 86. I wore black leather and wore my hair like that. It was an 80s thing. Close your eyes. Welcome to the 80s! Sexy ...lol 😲😎

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I'll listen then and tell you what I think.

Eating lunch yet? Lol

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I'm happy for you. That's sounds like fun!

Daughter's dad's phone is dead now as of yesterday. Really hoping he isnt. Sad

We spoke on the phone. Nice chat. He also lives in FL. I motherfucking hate FL and you couldn't pay me enough to ever move back. Currently stuck in Utah for a couple weeks, but I don't live here.

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Yep, I took my daughter to visit there a couple of years ago. We're in California,but looking to move soon.She keeps saying she wants to move to Florida. I said, sweetheart, I actually lived there. It may be fun to visit on occasion. However, for various reasons I won't get into, you wouldn't like it longterm.

So, I said, Texas, somewhere near the Louisiana border will have rain somewhat like Florida and we'll be close enough to visit without living there. ;)

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Sadly Utah became super trash, really sucks too because the state's so beautiful. The people just completely fucked it up.

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I've only passed through Utah. I actually considered moving there because it's a red state and near by to where I am presently. That's Sad to hear that it's become trashy.

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To be honest your best bet would be Eastern Arizona. There's still some pretty cheap land and some interesting things to look at.

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Depends where, really. The mormons of Salt Lake were good little goys by letting in the beaners and nignogs. Yesterday I was walking downtown and went from nice area to ten niggers bumming for money in the span of a block. Still no comparison to places like SF, Portland, Seattle, or the various midwest and east coast shitties.

Those smaller cities in southern Utah off of 89 seemed nice when I drove through last year.

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The ones south of Richfield city and north of billy the kids house are nice. They are far enough away from the parks to not to get juiced buy money grubs. I also like the area around Fish Lake. You're right there are a couple of spots that haven't been totally swamped yet.

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I'm visiting my folks so I was home. Personally I feel 98 percent of these holidays are Hallmark generated. My dad was floored when he came down and breakfast wasn't made for him. Fuck outta here.... The best I was willing to do was entertain my sick mom so he had some peace and quiet while he was watching golf.

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That's nice. I'm glad your dad had some time to himself. Hope your mom gets better soon. 🙏

I was too far to visit home. Maybe, next year. ;)