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Something I noticed this woman im dating does and it annoys me to no end. She will intentionally not text me, in the hopes i text her first. And within seconds of texting her, she replies back. At first i thought it was a one off issue, but it happens all the time, and its irritating as shit. What made it weird is she texted me earlier today and i replied back, and she didn't text me back at all. So she ghosted me and expected me to reply back later on as if she hadn't texted me earlier. The thing is i can't understand this behavior, because it comes off as manipulative more than anything else

Something I noticed this woman im dating does and it annoys me to no end. She will intentionally not text me, in the hopes i text her first. And within seconds of texting her, she replies back. At first i thought it was a one off issue, but it happens all the time, and its irritating as shit. What made it weird is she texted me earlier today and i replied back, and she didn't text me back at all. So she ghosted me and expected me to reply back later on as if she hadn't texted me earlier. The thing is i can't understand this behavior, because it comes off as manipulative more than anything else

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That's what I would do, but I'm petty.

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Im not that petty, but coming from a relationship that had wayyy more communication than this one, it comes off as confusing to me. If you want to talk just talk, dont hide behind layers of bullshit

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She’s texting other men. You’re just an orbiter back up for her. Stop wasting time playing childish games with some bitch.

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Right. Basically lying by omission unless you full on clarify that there's something you're just not ready to talk about

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The thing is i don't want to come off as pushy, but the chance of me being busy at 6 PM on a sunday, is extremely low. And this person texts back within milli seconds of getting my text, so its like ... were you waiting for me to text you or something? If so, why not just text me and ask or chat with me? Why bother going through these formalities of bullshit when we have already been dating for a few months?