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Something I noticed this woman im dating does and it annoys me to no end. She will intentionally not text me, in the hopes i text her first. And within seconds of texting her, she replies back. At first i thought it was a one off issue, but it happens all the time, and its irritating as shit. What made it weird is she texted me earlier today and i replied back, and she didn't text me back at all. So she ghosted me and expected me to reply back later on as if she hadn't texted me earlier. The thing is i can't understand this behavior, because it comes off as manipulative more than anything else

Something I noticed this woman im dating does and it annoys me to no end. She will intentionally not text me, in the hopes i text her first. And within seconds of texting her, she replies back. At first i thought it was a one off issue, but it happens all the time, and its irritating as shit. What made it weird is she texted me earlier today and i replied back, and she didn't text me back at all. So she ghosted me and expected me to reply back later on as if she hadn't texted me earlier. The thing is i can't understand this behavior, because it comes off as manipulative more than anything else

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[–] • 0 pt

Fair point, for now we have no new dates setup so i can always kill the relationship by attrition. If she really wants to see me again she may want to formalize a date, but this behavior she has DEFINITELY explains why most guys dont really stick around

[–] • 6 pts

If she was into you, she would keep communicating.

Not trying to break your balls, but she's probably getting nutted by other guys and will stick with the one that has the most shekels.

[–] • 3 pts

Well she did recently mention she was going to meet up with a "friend" for an hour or so, so you may honestly be right. I wouldn't be surprised if she's seeing multiple guys at once

[–] • 0 pt

How long were you dating her? Did it seem serious to you? Did you kiss her or were you ever intimate with her? How old is she? Are you near her age?

If she's not the one, you'll find the perfect one eventually, hopefully.

When you get older, you may feel happy when you're left alone.

Time changes everything.

[–] • 0 pt

Last girl I tried has 2 boyfriends... and a husband. Best luck with whatever her problem is you're dealing with

[–] • 0 pt

This is why I never did the "dating" thing. Men were either my partner, friends, or off the radar entirely. No fucking way was I "getting to know" several people at once.

[–] • 1 pt

Was a time 15 yrs back, that described my relationships. Ive grown alot since then. I dont know you, but youre better than a begger, im sure. Im not tryin to be a dick, but its better to be alone than be? Used. Weak. A bitch. Idk.