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Something I noticed this woman im dating does and it annoys me to no end. She will intentionally not text me, in the hopes i text her first. And within seconds of texting her, she replies back. At first i thought it was a one off issue, but it happens all the time, and its irritating as shit. What made it weird is she texted me earlier today and i replied back, and she didn't text me back at all. So she ghosted me and expected me to reply back later on as if she hadn't texted me earlier. The thing is i can't understand this behavior, because it comes off as manipulative more than anything else

Something I noticed this woman im dating does and it annoys me to no end. She will intentionally not text me, in the hopes i text her first. And within seconds of texting her, she replies back. At first i thought it was a one off issue, but it happens all the time, and its irritating as shit. What made it weird is she texted me earlier today and i replied back, and she didn't text me back at all. So she ghosted me and expected me to reply back later on as if she hadn't texted me earlier. The thing is i can't understand this behavior, because it comes off as manipulative more than anything else

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Exactly. Instead of communicating, he'd rather whine about it online.

Is hard to say what her deal is.. Maybe, she is just trying to not appear needy and isn't sure how to respond.

Maybe, she doesn't like texting and having to stay glued to her phone.

Or maybe, she really isn't into you.

It takes talking to the actual person to figure out their reasoning.