I can't tell if it comes from a lack of attraction or being super inexperienced
Oh you sweet summer child. A woman's passion is not turned on or off by attraction or inexperience. It is controlled by you not remembering some insignificant detail of an event on the calendar last week that you didn't even know was on the calendar. It is controlled by whether or not she is feeling good about herself that day or if she thinks you're looking at other women because she's got low self-esteem. It's controlled by something that happened at work that doesn't even involve you and she's rehashing it over and over in her mind. It's controlled by you easily succeeding in something that she hasn't ever succeeded in herself and she doesn't like that fact. It's controlled by a dream she had where you said or did something she disliked and she cannot separate the dream world from reality. It's controlled by how much or how little you interact with your family, friends and coworkers. It's controlled by your decision to do something without her, or with her or with someone else. It's controlled by her hair, her makeup, her weight, her clothes, her shoes, her friends, her family, her future, her past, her present. It's controlled by a billion things and you're just caught in the middle.
The only confusing part about your question is why you think there is an answer here.
Female attraction is always based on status. The only variable is the particular woman's perception of status. Status is judged by how many people consider you their superior, so your apparent status is obviously a function of how many of those people are part of her social circle.
Funnily enough, this means that as soon as you start pining for a woman, you are signaling that you believe your own status is lower than hers, which dampens her interest. If you ignore her, it means your status is so high that you don't feel obligated to cater to her whims, which makes her more interested.
If you think about it, women are trying their best to help us out here, in their own way. They keep nagging you constantly about any number of obviously stupid and self-contradictory shit. Of course they're really hoping you'll just say no. Problem is a lot of men think they're supposed to go along with it, and even try to force other men to go along with it.
Of course, self-advertised status only goes so far, unless we're talking about drunk one night stands here. At some point, you need to have actual status to back it up.
Dafuq?! How is this supposed to help me? So really, just ignore whatever petty bullshit she complains about that day, and move on with my life. Pretty much, to treat a woman right, just treat her like a child ...
Pretty much, to treat a woman right, just treat her like a child ...
You're soooo close to an epiphany here.
So really the epiphany is that to trust in woman is terrible, instead if i trust in myself, I can lead the woman to do what i want. Really, opposite of clown world
Women are children in adult bodies. They are also insane.
Yes, I do think that you've got a pretty good handle on this thing...
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