I've been self employed for almost 20 years, various businesses. Started in my early 20's, I was too afraid and had a job as a backup safety net. It wasn't until I was 31 that I took the leap and fully focused on building a business. I have failed a lot, and each failure was a lesson.
That business went really well, sold it and took a salaried job for a couple of years and hated it (crazy opportunity I couldn't pass up, and added to my skill set). Started a side business while working that job, COVID hit, lost the job and my business suffered (travel related).
I had to work part time restaurant jobs, did some consulting, whatever to stay afloat the last two years. This year is my best year yet, I've since started two other businesses and incorporated.
It's crazy busy so I'm working way too many hours, but I'm doing what I love and I feel alive after two years of shitty people in my life telling me to "get a real job, you need benefits, work somewhere that will take care of you". My fiance is working for me part time, and will be full time in a few months.
I now make 3x than my highest salary, and it's just the beginning. Don't be a pussy, live your life on your terms, just know how to play the game.
Don't have expectations, don't take anything personally. Read more nonfiction, focus on the path not the end goal. God will take care of you, stop living in fear and fully trust.
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