Been living with my gf for 8 years until a couple months ago when she up and left, taking only her clothes and massive collection of "thundercats" toys and collectibles. Which is fine, because I'm not really interested in continuing a relationship with her, but the problem is that she left all the rest of her stuff. I told her I didn't want any of her stuff, and I invited her back a few times since, but she only took a couple things here and there each time. Now she blocked my phone and I can't contact her anymore, but I still have all these really personal things like keepsakes from her grandparents, irreplaceable photos of old friends and family, mementos of childhood, trip souvenirs, diaries, the list goes on... I don't want this stuff in my house, but I also think if I threw it all away, it would be the shittiest thing I've ever done. But she seems to be giving me no choice.
Been living with my gf for 8 years until a couple months ago when she up and left, taking only her clothes and massive collection of "thundercats" toys and collectibles. Which is fine, because I'm not really interested in continuing a relationship with her, but the problem is that she left all the rest of her stuff. I told her I didn't want any of her stuff, and I invited her back a few times since, but she only took a couple things here and there each time. Now she blocked my phone and I can't contact her anymore, but I still have all these really personal things like keepsakes from her grandparents, irreplaceable photos of old friends and family, mementos of childhood, trip souvenirs, diaries, the list goes on... I don't want this stuff in my house, but I also think if I threw it all away, it would be the shittiest thing I've ever done. But she seems to be giving me no choice.
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