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Been living with my gf for 8 years until a couple months ago when she up and left, taking only her clothes and massive collection of "thundercats" toys and collectibles. Which is fine, because I'm not really interested in continuing a relationship with her, but the problem is that she left all the rest of her stuff. I told her I didn't want any of her stuff, and I invited her back a few times since, but she only took a couple things here and there each time. Now she blocked my phone and I can't contact her anymore, but I still have all these really personal things like keepsakes from her grandparents, irreplaceable photos of old friends and family, mementos of childhood, trip souvenirs, diaries, the list goes on... I don't want this stuff in my house, but I also think if I threw it all away, it would be the shittiest thing I've ever done. But she seems to be giving me no choice.

Been living with my gf for 8 years until a couple months ago when she up and left, taking only her clothes and massive collection of "thundercats" toys and collectibles. Which is fine, because I'm not really interested in continuing a relationship with her, but the problem is that she left all the rest of her stuff. I told her I didn't want any of her stuff, and I invited her back a few times since, but she only took a couple things here and there each time. Now she blocked my phone and I can't contact her anymore, but I still have all these really personal things like keepsakes from her grandparents, irreplaceable photos of old friends and family, mementos of childhood, trip souvenirs, diaries, the list goes on... I don't want this stuff in my house, but I also think if I threw it all away, it would be the shittiest thing I've ever done. But she seems to be giving me no choice.

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[–] • 59 pts

Drop all the shit at her parent's.

[–] • 17 pts (edited )

This is the correct response. But make damned certain you are dropping it off at her parents, and not using the "opportunity" to talk to them in any way, including to get closure. Do the deed; one trip, consider your moral obligation met, and move along home (with a clear conscience and a firm resolve). You get to have a new section of your life to go live.

[–] • 3 pts

If that's possible, he might not know them.

[–] • 11 pts

8 years. He likely knows them.

[–] • 0 pt

It could also be they live a couple thousand miles away

[–] [deleted] • 2 pts

Yeah there's no reason not to be the better person. You'll feel better about yourself. ^

[–] • 1 pt

Fuck that I'll bet her mom's a bitch.

[–] [deleted] • 4 pts

Doesn’t matter. He’s not doing because he likes the mom, he needs to do it because it’s the right thing to do.

[–] • 0 pt

It's really not. She obviously doesn't want them. Why should he go out of his way at all for someone that blocked him for his attempts to get her her shit back.

[–] • 1 pt

And fill them in on the nigger she left you for.