It does take a toll on the mind, I won't go into the drivel of it here. But it's better to have one that loves you than hundreds that hate and blame you for their unhappiness. My dad was a pussy magnet too, so I look at it as a genetic defect. not my fault. He's had more bastard kids than I have fingers and toes. I know this because of DNA testing and half sisters and brothers coming out of the woodwork. Any guy that gets lots of girls, it's not skills, it's genetics.