>My suggestion is move to the nice / nicest suburb of at least a medium sized city Are you kidding? IMHO wealthy suburbs of big cities are the worst! There are some great small towns, and many of them have lots of "things to do" that are more wholesome (and far less expensive) than amusement parks and trampoiine gyms. I get that some of us are urbanites and can't stand the idea of spending time in a rural area or a small town, but if you find one where you fit in, it's the best thing ever!