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So last few times I've gone out with work in the last month, I've got a little too friendly with a female work colleague I've known for a few years. Touching, kissing etc after alot of alcohol. She's not a stunner but cute enough. No big deal, a bit of fun.

She now comes in to work yesterday and informs me she has broken up with her boyfriend of 5 years who she still lives with. WTF.

I think she genuinely believes I'm stepping in to fill the void. Chick won't stop texting me, following me around at work.

Her former boyfriend is going away for a couple of weeks soon and I'm invited.

I kind of want this to stop, office romances are cringe. She's a little too overbearing after just a few kisses. Fuck knows what she'll be like if I fuck her. It may things worse.

What should I do? Run a mile or run with it?

So last few times I've gone out with work in the last month, I've got a little too friendly with a female work colleague I've known for a few years. Touching, kissing etc after alot of alcohol. She's not a stunner but cute enough. No big deal, a bit of fun. She now comes in to work yesterday and informs me she has broken up with her boyfriend of 5 years who she still lives with. WTF. I think she genuinely believes I'm stepping in to fill the void. Chick won't stop texting me, following me around at work. Her former boyfriend is going away for a couple of weeks soon and I'm invited. I kind of want this to stop, office romances are cringe. She's a little too overbearing after just a few kisses. Fuck knows what she'll be like if I fuck her. It may things worse. What should I do? Run a mile or run with it?

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First rule about workplace dating. You don't stick your quill in company ink. Never should have been fucking around with people you work with.

Now that you fucked that up, you gotta ask yourself, "Did I know she was in a relationship?" In my opinion any dude that knowingly fucks another guys chick, has no honor and should be disregarded by other men.

Now you did say, it was kissing. So that might not be so bad. We'll just say you were taste testing another man's dick sucking machine. However, you did break it by doing so. Kind of rude of you.

Now that all that useless bullshit is settled and out of the way, what you really need to do is grow a set of balls and just tell it to her straight.

"I fucked up by mingling with work peeps in none work environments".

"I fucked up by kissing you because I have low moral standards, not gonna blame the drinks because that's what a bitch would do".

"I refuse to continue to fuck up so I'm telling you that I'm done with all of it."

"It's definitely me, it's also definitely you."

"You are the cheating whore, while I am a complete piece of shit."

"At least your ex dodged a bullet."

By this point things should be pretty clear to both of you that you guys each fucked up. She won't be able to rationalize it like that though because women do emotion. She'll melt down.

In the meantime you could prepare to lose your job and the real possiblity of her bringing sexual assault alligations against you. Then once you come up with a solution to that, you could always prepare for the next time your Dick starts thinking for your brain.