Yeah. I used to be too slow and didn't catch people, so I had to watch out for signs and act with incomplete information. I'm right most of the time. It's a trade off. Assholes want to take advantage of you by having you wait until you have everything verified, but by then they've already done their assholery and it's too late.

Anyone who says no is a liar. I've struggled with anger over issues, still do. For awhile I lived in a place where having a counter view was forbidden, so I didn't often get to discuss things. The moment they would say something I knew categorically to be false, I would start tripping over myself in frustration to discuss it with them. Only to end up sounding like a crazy person after they deny and gaslight me. There is just too much information needed to connect everything for people stubbornly blind.

That in turn would lead me to have a constant animosity for the topics and people.

Now I am around more like minded people, and can have at least some decent conversation about things. I still fuck up all the time though.

I do so less and less over time as I age

YES. And then, I started reading the Bible. Fixed it.