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This man is super bougie, and cares wayyyyy too much about appearances. The best example is he constantly bitches I need to get rid of my pickup truck, and replace it with a 6 figure vehicle. Now guess who keeps calling me to use my truck because his bougie car can't do jack fuck? That's right same dude. And it seems like this guy is walking from one huge payment to another, with no real effort to stop. He's essentially ponzying a bunch of people at the same time, and using the money from one to pay of another person, or using personal loans to pay off one person, and trying to have someone else co sign another loan to pay off someone else. His wife likes the lifestyle, which is not surprising in the least, but this man needs to seriously stop because this will not end well for him come a few years time. As of now, this man has borrowed upwards of 250,000 from family, friends and loans, on top of buying a humongous multi million dollar house, on top of trying to get a business loan. It's complete fucking insanity, and its actually making me mad because so many people are going to get screwed in the process

This man is super bougie, and cares wayyyyy too much about appearances. The best example is he constantly bitches I need to get rid of my pickup truck, and replace it with a 6 figure vehicle. Now guess who keeps calling me to use my truck because his bougie car can't do jack fuck? That's right same dude. And it seems like this guy is walking from one huge payment to another, with no real effort to stop. He's essentially ponzying a bunch of people at the same time, and using the money from one to pay of another person, or using personal loans to pay off one person, and trying to have someone else co sign another loan to pay off someone else. His wife likes the lifestyle, which is not surprising in the least, but this man needs to seriously stop because this will not end well for him come a few years time. As of now, this man has borrowed upwards of 250,000 from family, friends and loans, on top of buying a humongous multi million dollar house, on top of trying to get a business loan. It's complete fucking insanity, and its actually making me mad because so many people are going to get screwed in the process

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[–] • 15 pts

You should reevaluate your friendship with this person.

[–] • 3 pts

Do as this man says. He is not a friend you want to keep.

[–] • 0 pt

Opportunist is probably a better word than an actual friend, especially given the context of how I met up with him. The thing is the context of meeting him implied some level of trust and confidence, but this man knows very little about personal boundaries, and routinely blurs the lines between professional acquaintance and friendship

[–] • 0 pt

Get the fuck away from him!

[–] • 10 pts

Be a man. Tell him no. And as you walk away, tell him why.

[–] [deleted] • 2 pts

He likes being spanked by that big black hunk of love sausage

[–] • 1 pt

Sounds like that's the case. Op sounds like not only a massive pussy, but a bit of a homo also.

[–] • 9 pts

Why stop him? Just reframe your perspective. You are simply watching a slow motion movie and your friend is the main character. The movie is about someone destroying their lives financially.

[–] • 4 pts

Why are you so involved with another man's lifestyle and concerned about his financial decisions? You have crush on this guy? You jealous that he got married? You have daddy issues?

Just tell him you like trucks and you think his business decisions are bad news. If he never talks to you again, so be it. Or you can continue obsessing about him like a school girl. Your choice.

[–] • 4 pts

I would cut people out of my life for way less than this. I have no idea why you would maintain such an acquaintance unless you're generally a very weak person.

[–] • 2 pts

He's not your friend. Excise him and those like him from your life. Your stress level will decrease tenfold.

[–] • 0 pt

Feels like it, the only reason this matters that much is because this guy was dumped on me as part of a litigation process, and he's kind of stuck around since then. From what i gather, everything this guy owns was effectively bought by someone else

[–] • 1 pt

Did you get a court appointed friend? What the fuck?

[–] • 0 pt

That's the general gist of it actualy, i wont go into detail but this guy was appointed to me and not a friend by choice. If I leave, he has the power to effectively use the state to find me

[–] • 0 pt

Prison rape is an opportunity.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

Is he friends with you because he is a friend, or does he see you as another potential mark with money? Something to think about.

At best he wants you to get into debt and be as miserable as he is. Not a good quality in a friend.

[–] • 0 pt

See i dont know about this, he became my friend through the outcome of a litigation process, of which he was the manager of my funds. So he knows roughly what i have in terms of money, so he must in a way see me as a way to make ends meet for himself. From my own perspective, him being my friend makes very little sense, we dont really share the same ideals, we dont value the same things, we dont really have much in common when you think about it

[–] • 6 pts

That Isnt a friend. That is a leech who is hoping to drain you dry.

[–] • 1 pt

How come everything you post is so fucking whiny?

[–] • 1 pt (edited )

Simple straight forward conversation, just like you've had here (only a little more polite than you've worded here if you value the friendship).

You're not his parent, and he won't listen to you anyways, so I'd leave his financial decissions out of it, make it about yours.

Tell him you're happy with your truck, you don't have a great desire for expensive cars and are not interested in getting in a lot of debt for something you don't really care about. Same thing for anything else that applies (you said that was one example, so if he likes expensive clothes, facy dinners, whatever else - same deal. You're happy with what you have and would rather have the money for other things).

If he pesters you after that tell him you've discussed it, and if he's your friend beyomd it being safe, reliable and affordable he shouldn't care what kind of car you drive (etc same deal for other stuff). If he doesn't listen then he's not really your friend and better to find some folks who are as happy to roll around with you in a used F-150 as they are a new S500. You don't have to act like the guy is dead to you, everyone has flaws and there are worse than liking fancy cars, but don't entertain the conversation further.

[–] • 1 pt

Tell him how nice it is to have a paid off vehicle, and a lyfestyle you can afford.
If he needs a co-signer on a loan, he's about two seconds from destruction.

Of course there's the nuclear option " I'll buy that truck after you complete financial peace university with me"

[–] • 2 pts

Most of his work is speculative markets and investments, the most useless profession after insurance salesman. Is my truck beat up? Sure. He suggested I give up a paid off truck to instead lease a car at 2,000/month ... like dafuq?! Why would i even entertain such a rabidly retarded idea to begin with? Of course this guy is a nigger, so it makes complete sense, the ooga booga crap matters more than the fundamentals, even if the fundamentals are built on top of completely watered out foundations on the brink of collapse. And whilst some of this man's ideas are smart, they are so dangerous, that one would need all the stars to align for them to work out properly

[–] • 6 pts

Why the fuck are you friends with a nigger who is trying to get you to do nigger shit?

You need to learn to cut ties. This isnt a person who is good for you. You need to find other friends.

Stop associating with the nigger.

[–] • 1 pt

I always assumed there was different levels of nigger behavior, but it seems the assertion was wrong. This guy is the embodiment of oogah boogah shiny shit meme. Sure he may have a high drive to succeed, but that success comes at the failure of everyone around him, its a dystopia where those around him have to sacrifice everything to make sure this guy succeeds. And yet all he has to do is spend less money, and live within his means. And yet he doesn't do that. He recently got married, and he was complaining weddings are so expensive. I assumed it was the wife at first making these demands, until she told me she was happy with a courthouse wedding, and that the culprit was actually the nigger instead. Made me realize the guy is essentially lying to everyone around him to protect his fuck ups to the nth degree

[–] • 3 pts

My friend , Avoid the Groid is Rule # 1 for a reason. When the house of cards collapses , your nigger " friend " will probably kill you while you lay sleeping to rob you n sheeit

You've been given fair warning.

[–] • 0 pt

One of the ironic things he's trying to do is terraform me from my ideals to his. It isn't working at all, because my ideals come from the midwest, and are much more simple focussed and authentic than his. Sure, i may not always be nice, I may not always have a sugar coated variant of what to say, I may not even care about what I drive or wear. Because none of those things really matter to me, its all materialistic crap to me, it's only value is what I give it and beyond that it's just linen or cotton. Needless to say, this doesn't really work with niggers, because they can't comprehend not everyone is a material driven consumeristic monkey

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