Ok, goth Yoda. The question is where does one place one's self to be proximal to opportunity. So you are harping on something that is already implied in the question then failed to offer any insight on the relationship of locations and opportunities.
Obviously standing in a busy intersection maximizes your number of unique human interactions but it does that in a useless way. Ergo the deconstruction of romantic pairing down to the core concept of placing male next to female is insufficient. Crowd sourcing better strategies is not a philosophical discussion, it is aggregating wisdom from the personal life experiences of the masses.
Op is not asking for you to espouse your philosophy on human pairing, simply to chip in your 2 cents on what locations, in your personal experience, offer opportunities to talk to girls.
Shoe stores, when they are having a sale.
This is the way I read it also. I'm almost 60 and this is still a question for me. Church is a no go since the women are all married or in some problem as in medical in their lives so I ruled that out. Also I cannot talk to a woman in a personal way unless we are isolated. I can talk but it's not from the soul but the brain with others around and I'm as subtle as a nuclear bomb in a punch bowl "twisted analogy".
Either that sounded cooler in your head or you need to stop reusing digs from post to post.
I answered the question in the only way that matters, and nothing about my response is implied in the question itself. The answer is: It doesn't matter, but I was trying to be more informative as to why it doesn't matter, because unless the criteria I've set forth are met - there is no universalizable location on Earth that will produce results.
The fact is, wherever there are females is where you will meet them; that's not the question; who you are when you're seeking them is the one that will determine your chance at success.
That sounds very philosophical to me. A nihilistic philosophy reminiscent of depressed teenagers aka the goth kids.
The fact is, wherever there are females is where you will meet them;
You are incorrectly discounting a lot of variables, as I touched on with my street analogy. El guapo will have a harder time picking up girls at an abortion clinic than an average Joe will at a wedding.
Place and time are important in courtship. It is not that rare that people bat above thier average by mastering this skill.
I'm sorry you're having difficulty with the subject material, I'm not incorrectly discounting anything. I'm not attempting to write a dissertation. Place and time and one's RBI metrics are downstream considerations to what I wrote.
I met my wife at the mall in 1997. We have been married since 2000.
It's been a real ride since 2000. Sounds like you really got lucky with the timing.
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