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Everyone around me is always so off putting. I dated a few women and they all still believe I'm gonna furnish their lifestyle even though we broke up. I mean, don't mind helping out from time to time for emergency situations beyond anyone's control, but the shit people expect from others today isn't even entitled, its off the wall insanity. And on top of this, it seems everyone's attitudes are getting worst by the day. I had the one woman complain that since my assets were locked behind a bunch of legal walls that dating me without getting married was a net drain on her, as if my sole purpose in life was to pay for her needs without question. But it's not just the women that are the problem, the guys aren't much better. I feel like my brain is slowly becoming more distant from people, not because i dont want to be social, but simply because getting too close to anyone these days is a sure fire way to get completely screwed over.

Everyone around me is always so off putting. I dated a few women and they all still believe I'm gonna furnish their lifestyle even though we broke up. I mean, don't mind helping out from time to time for emergency situations beyond anyone's control, but the shit people expect from others today isn't even entitled, its off the wall insanity. And on top of this, it seems everyone's attitudes are getting worst by the day. I had the one woman complain that since my assets were locked behind a bunch of legal walls that dating me without getting married was a net drain on her, as if my sole purpose in life was to pay for her needs without question. But it's not just the women that are the problem, the guys aren't much better. I feel like my brain is slowly becoming more distant from people, not because i dont want to be social, but simply because getting too close to anyone these days is a sure fire way to get completely screwed over.

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[–] • 8 pts

Jews.

[–] • 2 pts

But like .... how has it become so fast? It feels like not even 10 years ago people weren't this bad. Now I would be hard pressed to ever want to socialize with any of these fucks

[–] • 4 pts

It's not been fast. They have been at it for decades.

[–] • 3 pts

The pressure has been constant for more than a century, but only over the last few decades has the resistance crumbled, and newer generations never mature out of the instinctive entitlement of the infant who, unlike an adult, can rightfully expect total care.

[–] • 8 pts

It has something to do with the erosion of the concept of inalienable rights and the constant inclusion of privileges and entitlements within that definition.

[–] • 1 pt

You can't sell potatoes on the side of the fucking road without tax collectors and police harassing you. you have no inalienable rights.

and we wonder why people never grow up or mature beyond entitlement.

Millions of people out there thinking, why bother trying?

We underestimate the suppressive and absolutely corosive effect of a single example of overreach.

People catch on quickly. Don't talk, don't stand, dont even try without asking permission.

and if you do, the answer is no.

unless you're rich beforehand.

Try running a fucking hamburger stand without spending two fucking weeks of your time on paperwork and multiple paychecks filing and sorting it out before you sell a single fucking burger.

and thats how you end up with people resorting to entitlement.

"Why bother?" is the death of nations.

[–] • 5 pts

Sounds like you need to break out into a different social circle friend. Maybe it's just your area or career field attract certain personalities.

Maybe I am lucky but the city I live in is still predominantly full of rugged individualist mindset. I have a good set of friends that offers help but doesn't ask for it from all walks of life. My wife has been stubbornly independent our whole relationship.

[–] • 0 pt

Rugged individualist ≠ city slicker

[–] • 5 pts

Eighty plus years of indoctrination under the Frankfurt School process.

[–] • 2 pts

Social media amplified what was happening by at least a hundred times. It allows people to get dopamine reactions and far too much self worth by posting on social media, getting likes/faves/etc while anything bad is hidden from them. You will learn that the more people use social media, the more entitled and narcissistic they are. Find the woman and friends who think Facebook, Twitter, TikTok, etc are stupid.

[–] • 1 pt

For years this has been my belief too.

I have seen numerous times, particularly with the younger generation, how that overabundance of dopamine from cheap games and stupid videos after even just one full day just turns on that switch of self-entitlement.

In the information age the "survival of the fittest" refers to those who can manage the bombardment of all this information, recognizing the psychological cost of the bad and rejecting it.

[–] • 0 pt

Natural human groups give constant feedback to each other, and absent some corrupting force like jews or their money, it will self-regulate. Social media is a surrogate for other human contact, giving distorted responses that mold a person into a disfigured, self-centered beast (simulated jew?). Since there are no constraints on the media platform (it's not human, it doesn't have needs, doesn't get annoyed), it can be limitless in its back-patting and merit-awarding of the user.

[–] • 2 pts (edited )

Random musings;

1: NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming). NLP creates control freaks who feel that they can control people around them at the expense of any spiritual development. Leads to this entitlement causing said persons being reduced to the psychology of a Ferengi from Star trek.

2: As others have said, social media has done a good job of fucking people in the head with selling unrealistic lifestyles that are not obtainable for the majority of people.

3: Reality TV:- Again promotes a lifestyle that can never be achieved. Creates the same dopamine effects as pornography. Again this creates a psychology of entitlement & psychopathy. A good example to study is any interview with the empty & hollow reptilian Kim Kardashian. She oozes a repulsive air that makes you want to pull her lungs out of her vagina with pre 20th Century medical equipment.

[–] • 2 pts

Reality TV:- Again promotes a lifestyle that can never be achieved. Creates the same dopamine effects as pornography.

Maybe for women + low IQ tards.

Reality TV triggers my gag reflex.

[–] • 1 pt

Reality TV is probably the most mild example of promoting a lifestyle that can't be achieved, the much more glaring example is sex being plastered everywhere. An average guy will never get a chance to have sex with anything other than a used up whore in her 40s if he's lucky. You even see it on sites like this with things like families and home ownership being promoted rather than a life of just scraping by.

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I mean, don't mind helping out from time to time for emergency situations beyond anyone's control

What?? These are adult women, right? They are strong independent career women who don't need a husband, right? Then they should have an income, car insurance, health insurance, home insurance and an emergency fund to take care of themselves just like a self-reliant man does. Why would they come sniveling to an ex for money unless it's pay for pussy like a common whore?

[–] • 1 pt

Most of these people never had to suffer or want for anything. Spoiled rotten. Gonna be a hard awakening.

[–] • 1 pt

Everyone has a over-inflated sense of self worth. Especially women.

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If you're dating conservative women who do not want to work, part of your responsibilities IS to support them and your future children.

If they are entitled whore queens, that is a different story.

But if you want a trad wife, you must have trad husband responsibility which means you make enough to support the whole family on just your income.

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