Nope. In most societies, if you control the rules, you control the women.

It's easy to get that arrow of causation backwards, because women are 51% of the population in democracies and they are the majority of consumer spending, making it seem like they should have power. And, of course, modern Western societies implement policies that disadvantage men, making it seem like women do have power.

However, most of the population is easily manipulated, and women are extremely vulnerable to emotional appeals. Their votes and dollars are easily controlled with enough media influence. Also, the growing feminism and gynocentric policy decisions of the last century were not to uphold women, but rather to destroy gender relations. This is made clear by the fact that all of the institutions of mainstream power in Western society, once the bastion of pro-women feminism, quickly threw women under the bus for trannies once it was apparent that transexual issues were now viable as a greater weapon against gender relations.

Most women, like most men, have no power, and the real rules are made regardless of their interests. But, women are generally attracted to power, and those who set rules have easy access to women.

Only in the west.

I can't choose the respect of men, because what say should I have over other people's feelings?

I choose to be lusted after by women, an option that gives me a say over other people's feelings.

I'm having trouble following the logic here.

Women are easily manipulated. You or I couldn't be widely desired at 5'3", sure. But that tiny jew has the power of a significant politician, and is being plastered across the media as a manly super hero.

Sadly, most people's minds are designed by mass media.