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I'm 35 and had a relatively normal American experience in my 20s, being sexually risky and not making smart choices. I came out with no children or baby mama drama.

Now facing what we do and gone through what we have, I feel pretty lucky that me and my girlfriend don't have children. Seems like a liability. I've had a gut feeling since I was a kid that kids wouldn't be a good idea for me.

Personally, I'd have ended up in jail with an assault charge during the covid days if i found out of any teacher BS and my kid

I'm 35 and had a relatively normal American experience in my 20s, being sexually risky and not making smart choices. I came out with no children or baby mama drama. Now facing what we do and gone through what we have, I feel pretty lucky that me and my girlfriend don't have children. Seems like a liability. I've had a gut feeling since I was a kid that kids wouldn't be a good idea for me. Personally, I'd have ended up in jail with an assault charge during the covid days if i found out of any teacher BS and my kid

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I'm convinced there is no experience on earth that matches having a family. So grateful for my kids!

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Why so?

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The experience of having kids is essentially what life is all about. It's the single most enriching experience my life has had. Seeing them born into this world, their growth, the trials and tribulations you face with them, it's all worth it, every bit of it. The love I have for my children is unequaled and it's a type of love you can't know until you have children.