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I know a women who was drawn in by an ex-con sentenced for domestic battery and property destruction. She did this despite the prior victim reaching out to her in an attempt to warn her, she essentially had every warning and knew what she was in for. Now, the guy literally cries like a baby when she tries to leave him and she takes him back, or he’ll break her phone and destroy other property if he finds evidence that she is cheating. This is literally only a few months affair for her so far at this point. I don’t expect this to end well, and there are young children involved being subjected to witness these abuses.

I’d say that these outbursts have happened in some way or another about a dozen times during this short amount of time. I don’t sense so much that he is some sort of dominant alpha as much as he is just simply angry, manic and unable to control his emotional responses to situations. I believe this women was desperate at the time for a provider of some sort, and he was initially love bombing the shit out of her and soon after began revealing his true nature. In addition to the charges he acquired years ago, he also has a restraining order places upon him by another female.

Questions: What types of chicks are more prone to falling for these losers? How much longer do you think this chick has before she fucks up and finds out? How could I hypothetically maybe assist in the acceleration of this process (asking for a friend)?

I know a women who was drawn in by an ex-con sentenced for domestic battery and property destruction. She did this despite the prior victim reaching out to her in an attempt to warn her, she essentially had every warning and knew what she was in for. Now, the guy literally cries like a baby when she tries to leave him and she takes him back, or he’ll break her phone and destroy other property if he finds evidence that she is cheating. This is literally only a few months affair for her so far at this point. I don’t expect this to end well, and there are young children involved being subjected to witness these abuses. I’d say that these outbursts have happened in some way or another about a dozen times during this short amount of time. I don’t sense so much that he is some sort of dominant alpha as much as he is just simply angry, manic and unable to control his emotional responses to situations. I believe this women was desperate at the time for a provider of some sort, and he was initially love bombing the shit out of her and soon after began revealing his true nature. In addition to the charges he acquired years ago, he also has a restraining order places upon him by another female. Questions: What types of chicks are more prone to falling for these losers? How much longer do you think this chick has before she fucks up and finds out? How could I hypothetically maybe assist in the acceleration of this process (asking for a friend)?

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Fatherless chicks who were never taught the difference between good men capable of violence and violent men, so they confuse the two constantly and since the second is much more common than the first in our castrated modern society they more than often end up with sociopathic abusers.

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In regards to your good men capable of violence comment, what are some ideas on how to live up to that ideal? Some I can think of are having principles, adhering to some sort of moral code, lifting weights, learning self-defense and how to fuck up someone bigger and stronger than you, carrying a concealed weapon as a last resort.

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Pretty much nailed it. Also read a lot. Gain useful information and skills.

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Child abuse is rampant, and victims of abuse frequently perpetuate that cycle into adulthood. It's the same reason children of alcoholics often become (or marry) alcoholics as adults.

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You don’t think there is some biological component to it also?

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Simply put women are instinctually attracted to power, and when people are violent they misinterpret that as strength. its not completely illogical, the woman will ignore the violence if she thinks the man is strong enough. Either because she wants strong children or she wants a man who can fight off the other violent people in her life.

They dont see the violence as a problem, its not the fantasy men have where the woman is oppressed and suffering and is waiting for someone to rescue her, she enjoys drama and likes having a bully in her life. Its not about being safe its about being comfortable and that woman is comfortable around violent people.

honestly there isnt ever any helping these people. They will take every help they can unless that help actually helps her situation. your friend will get pregnant, leave him, not know who the father is, get with another brute and get pregnant to him too. she will have 4 kids to 4 men and half will be criminals themselves.

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Under stress scenarios, women prefer physically strong and assertive men (like T-Rash the criminal) over physically weak and less assertive men like Bob the accountant. Because if the SHTF, her biology is screaming for a guy who can clobber someone and take their MREs.

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Slap some sense into her

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Its called Hybristophilia. All women are on the spectrum and they all would rather be beaten to death than bored to death.

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Girls are attracted to their father figures. Don't let TV raise your kids.

Men often suffer from the same problem, just inverse.

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I don't think it's possible to like these kind of men without being a little bit like them. She might have a dark side to her she is good at hiding.

Consider that women can't as easily start and win fights like men. They live out their anger differently. They might go after children or sometimes even housepets. They might be emotionally cruel. Or they might find a boyfriend who does all the fighting, acting out and terrorizing for them.

You have to be an absolute asshole to bring such a psychopath into the life of your family and friends. And women who make these men fathers are unhinged and outright sadistic themselves. Stop looking at them as innocent angels.

I believe this women was desperate at the time for a provider of some sort, and he was initially love bombing the shit out of her and soon after began revealing his true nature.

Was this woman hot enough to have options? Have you perhaps even been one of these options?

If so, if she had options, she was NOT desperate. She made her choice. Let her enjoy her choice, and stay away from people who could ruin your life.

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You’re definitely on to something, man. However, I shouldn’t publicly go into much more detail out in the open.

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Women are crazy.

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All healthy women are almost uncontrollably sexually drawn to men of power, including men they hate.

That's how the best, most physically competitive, best chance of survival, babies are made.

It's right in the DNA. Women have very little conscious control over it.

Nature does not leave such decisions up to the women.

If it did the human race would die.

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Like all those women on Twitter who had dreams of having sex with Trump kek

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Exactly.

Women, dogs, and horses.

This is a man's world.

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Learning about narcissist and how to deal with them or better yet avoid them should be taught in every school maybe starting in middle school introductory and then full on early in high school... initially I was thinking just for girls but Holy shit a narrcisit woman might be the most evil thing on the planet and the older i get the more I realize their might be more narcissist women then men... lots of men are bravos just want to dona good job and get things done have a family and kids the nature of society before civilization meant a couple alphas would probably kill each other off and the bravos would be around to take direction... some alphas would head off on their own or be kicked out by the standing alpha or he would know hey your second around here...

Just a thought but God damn a narrcisit when you start to learn about them are truly fucking sad fucked up humans from normal peoples perspective for them they literally treat other humans as objects or npcs to be used and discarded when ever they need a fix for emotion or what ever it is that goes through their sick mind money respect power the list is long and tiresome for those of us that are real human beings

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Narcissists care about how they are PERCEIVED, not how they actually ARE.

With this definition allmost all scared people are narcissistic to some degree. And all women to varying degrees.

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I think all woken are a combination of narrcisist and children that never grew up... but most are narrcisist and it varys depending on their looks but insanely enough even the fucking fat ugly ones are still narrcisist

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Questions: What types of chicks are more prone to falling for these losers? How much longer do you think this chick has before she fucks up and finds out? How could I hypothetically maybe assist in the acceleration of this process (asking for a friend)?

I'd say it is certain she was abused and this is what she is used to and comfortable with. It will take her a lot of effort and the ability to see she is playing out her issues with this to stop it. There is literally nothing you can do to help her unless she decides she will change AND does the work.

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