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I never believed in this sort of thing, but I fell in love at first sight yesterday. I think she's my soul mate. Just being around her sets off a chain reaction of ideas, I feel confident and true to myself when I'm around her. It's not even sexual really, I mean it most definitely is, but there's so much more chemistry there between us, I can feel it. I'm shrouded in a fog until I see her and suddenly a huge gust of wind sweeps in, revealing what lay before me like a road map and street signs pointing the way to my destination. I don't know, that's just how I feel. Sad part is, she doesn't even know I feel this way. I barely know her, but I know her enough to know that I need her in my life. But I'm so passionate, I'm frightened that if I try to talk to her about any of this I might gush and turn her completely and scare her away.. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO, but I need some advice because I've since been a complete mess, which is not like me at all. I'm no spring-chicken, I've been married and had kids, divorced 6 years now, I've had more girlfriends than I can name. But NEVER have I felt like this, I didn't think it was even possible. That's why this is so strange, I had my emotions in check. Help. I'm almost more terrified of her feeling the same way about me, because holy shit I am NOT ok right now. lol What the fuck do I do? She might even have a boyfriend right now, and he might've even be there at that house where I met her. I can't sleep. I don't even have her number, don't even know where she lives. All I know is that if I wanted that information badly enough that a mutual friend of her and me would gladly tell me. Fuck I fucking hate this fuuuuuuuuck

Edit: After a good night sleep and a day of reading everyone's comments and contemplating, I think I'm just going to keep doing ME. Keep working on building myself up and making myself a more desirable mate with a high SMV. Because all women are hypergamous, without fail. And she has a higher SMV than I have right now, so she almost certainly would not be interested in a guy like me. But I'm over it. Back to the old me that doesn't give a fuck what bitches think. And enjoying the drama-free, stress-free environment of my ever-so lovely bachelor lifestyle!

I never believed in this sort of thing, but I fell in love at first sight yesterday. I think she's my soul mate. Just being around her sets off a chain reaction of ideas, I feel confident and true to myself when I'm around her. It's not even sexual really, I mean it most definitely is, but there's so much more chemistry there between us, I can feel it. I'm shrouded in a fog until I see her and suddenly a huge gust of wind sweeps in, revealing what lay before me like a road map and street signs pointing the way to my destination. I don't know, that's just how I feel. Sad part is, she doesn't even know I feel this way. I barely know her, but I know her enough to know that I need her in my life. But I'm so passionate, I'm frightened that if I try to talk to her about any of this I might gush and turn her completely and scare her away.. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO, but I need some advice because I've since been a complete mess, which is not like me at all. I'm no spring-chicken, I've been married and had kids, divorced 6 years now, I've had more girlfriends than I can name. But NEVER have I felt like this, I didn't think it was even possible. That's why this is so strange, I had my emotions in check. Help. I'm almost more terrified of her feeling the same way about me, because holy shit I am NOT ok right now. lol What the fuck do I do? She might even have a boyfriend right now, and he might've even be there at that house where I met her. I can't sleep. I don't even have her number, don't even know where she lives. All I know is that if I wanted that information badly enough that a mutual friend of her and me would gladly tell me. Fuck I fucking hate this fuuuuuuuuck Edit: After a good night sleep and a day of reading everyone's comments and contemplating, I think I'm just going to keep doing ME. Keep working on building myself up and making myself a more desirable mate with a high SMV. Because all women are hypergamous, without fail. And she has a higher SMV than I have right now, so she almost certainly would not be interested in a guy like me. But I'm over it. Back to the old me that doesn't give a fuck what bitches think. And enjoying the drama-free, stress-free environment of my ever-so lovely bachelor lifestyle!

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I actually 100% agree with you that real "soul mates" are those that have been through the ups and downs together through years and years and many major life events... good times and bad... loved and argued and shared and compromised and still remain committed and caring of eachother.

My point wasn't that there is some "magic" match for everyone. Just that is not an novel or even rare response that the guy is experiencing feeling an overly intense attachment to someone that it is not entirely logical. Maybe its pheremones, hormones, psychology...etc...who knows. But it def doesn't make him crazy to feel really attached to this person even if they're not close or whatever. It happens a lot, even if not airways clear why.