I just redpilled the wife I had. I didn’t pay attention to anything political when I got married. Just married a hot piece of ass and got lucky that she wasn’t too brainwashed. When I started to realize what was going on, I would bring it up and share small red pills with her. Took her 2-4 years to see it. But now she’s almost further right than myself. I knew her mom was somewhat based and her stepfather was a Vietnam vet and he certainly did a good job laying the foundation. My advise would be not to get too caught up on it right away. If you can find someone who you can be friends with that is key. Sounds gay but my wife has become my best friend and I absolutely love being with her and most nights we just sit around and chat for hours after the kids are in bed. You can take care of the red pills later. Just make sure she’s not too far gone and you get along with each other. Also don’t fight, communicate.