Story time- I told my friends I was looking for a serious relationship. They actively asked people at church, school, sports ( I was under 20 at the time), people they thought attractive and nice people. Way easier to approach a woman if you are doing it for a friend-legitimately. I met my husband through a friend of mine, who approached him at the Beach surfing and asked if he was single, he was, then she told him, I have a friend that would be perfect for you. 40 years later here we are. Have your friends advocate for you. I have over the years met some really great men and women, who I suggest they go on a date if warranted. Some have worked others have not. Advice when you do find the one,be kind. My husbands kindness has forever made me a better person. That crazy man, has made me want to be a better person. Also, make sure her parents are together, you dont want to spend 3 years of your marriage reprogramming the girl, or dealing with daddy issues. You need a partner. For goodness sake dont settle.