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I find it hard to know how to comfort the neurotic women in my life. the behavior is just so alien to me that it is difficult to empathize with what they are going through when shit hits the fan. i don't care about being "right", i just want to get better at dealing with them.

I find it hard to know how to comfort the neurotic women in my life. the behavior is just so alien to me that it is difficult to empathize with what they are going through when shit hits the fan. i don't care about being "right", i just want to get better at dealing with them.

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[–] • 7 pts

You comfort them by being secure and comfortable yourself. Be competently calm in your actions and speech. Listen to and acknowledge their neuroses without letting it affect you.

[–] • 7 pts

Listen to and acknowledge their neuroses

HAHAHAHAHAHA fuck no

[–] • 2 pts

You can acknowledge faults without justifying them or wasting time. It used to be called belittlement, now it's a lost art.

[–] • 0 pt

Ignoring them is much easier

[–] • 3 pts

Never cuck. That's a boomer mindset. Women are mental toddlers with way too much authority. When kids throw tantrums, we don't "acknowledge their neurosis". Doing so only encourages that behavior.

[–] • 4 pts

Do what I do since my divorce: avoid all roasties.

[–] • 3 pts
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[–] • 2 pts (edited )

Dealing with neurotic women you like is easy, quite often they just want to vent and the way in which they deal with information is to talk through it (like rubber ducky programming).

So what you need to do is sit there and look as if you're listening, make some notes on what they're talking about to pull out the important information and offer tidbits of information and raw philosophy and quotes to guide them.

Dealing with neurotic women you don't like is harder, it's easy to not listen to them but if you don't say anything then they will take your silence as consent. If you do give advice they probably won't take it and think it might even be condescending.

So it's important that you let them know where your boundaries are and where they intrude on your boundaries as a fascist tyrant.

[–] • 2 pts

Just casually read the news paper while the are being neurotic.

[–] • 2 pts

Fuck them so hard they go normal and then leave.

[–] • 1 pt

Finish inside her, and as you leave whisper in her ear, single mother

[–] • 0 pt

"The only single moms I support work at strip clubs...."

[–] [deleted] • 2 pts

You don’t. You say I’m sorry you are going they that and go back to what you were doing; assuming what you are doing is productive.

[–] • 2 pts

Go watch all the James Bond movies that starred Sean Connery.

[–] • 1 pt

Encyclopedia Britannica is excellent.

Its big, heavy and hard covered, so it won't fall apart while beating her senseless...

[–] • 0 pt

Power: Surviving and Thriving After Narcissism

[–] • 0 pt

There's a reason men don't talk very much to their wives. It's not that we are the "strong and silent" types, it because it is impossible to have rational conversations with women when they are irrational, and after a time, men just stop trying. Women are completely dominated and controlled by their hormones. Periodically, they lose their rationality and start raving, crying, screaming, talking nonsense, or whatever. None of it has anything to do with anything, it's all hormone driven. I deal with it the way I deal with the rain -- I accept it as inevitable and I try to avoid it as much as possible.

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