I second The Silent Knife. Lots of great books out there in going unassisted too! I tried my best to avoid a C-section, knew the “cascade of intervention” and still ended up with one. I even started off at home and transferred just for something minor. The system is incredibly broken and toxic. I will never enter it again if I can help it at all. My midwife is the one who convinced me to “just go in” after an incredibly long labor. I wish I would have said no. Next time around I plan to go unassisted or find a helper who isn’t fearful.
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Thank you!
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