> don't be a pussy. if you don't think you're attractive, build your body. become something your wife is proud to admire. Oh, I do. I'm in pretty good shape. I'm just old enough to have the aging face and white hair. I accept my age and refuse to dye my hair / beard. I call it old, she calls it "distinguished". Whatever. Seems like most men my age are pretentious fags and they either cut their hair short or use dyes to pretend they aren't getting old. I own my white hair and the age that it signals. Does that make me the pussy or them the pussy? (Seriously, it's ridiculous how many guys over 40 use hair/beard dyes. If you see a man over 40 with a dark beard - especially if it is a shade darker than his hair - 90% change he is a girly man who colors his beard. No joke. The men are women and our society is so screwed.)