The thing with them occasionally saying stuff that sounds good is that they are acutely aware of how Jews as a whole tend to overstep and bring about their own destruction. Orthodox will try to hold back the most rabid Jews at times but not because they feel any guilt or remorse for what they're doing - it's because they're afraid the wrath of the goyim will follow and they know the history of this cycle. There was a great film made in Nazi Germany called 'Jude Suss' which follows a particularly nasty Jew as he takes over power and influence in a German province. There's a good scene where the orthodox Rabbi is warning him that if he Jews too hard too fast he's putting all the Jews at risk from blowback. They can't be allies. The whole reason they do what you're pointing out is that they're doing it in service of protecting the wider Jewish group. They don't care about you at all.