You should look up info on the Fediverse. It's a bunch of completely independent servers. Some people run them on a paid VMs (Vultr, DigitalOcean, OVH ... AWS because they're retarded), some run them out of their homes. There are several different server softwares: Mastodon (which is written by some German cuck with a diaper porn fetish), Pleroma (their "code of conduct is the best ever), Misskey (made by some Japs), PeerTube (made for video) and others. Each "instance" can talk to each other using something called ActivityPub (it's like e-mail/SMTP, but for Facebook/Twitter type public posts). If you get banned on an instance, or the people you like get banned from your instance, you can just switch to another one. Someone who creates an account with the same name on multiple instances is said to have "alts". People on here would probably like freespeechextremist.com, poa.st, bae.st (although be careful with this one; the admin is some Mississippi cuck who loves loli) and neckbeard.xyz. Gab use to be on the Fediverse (they used a modded Mastodon) but the SJW fedi had a collective bussy fit and screamed a lot and the Gab guy hated porn so they un-federated. Gettr, Parler and all those sites are fucking dumb. Don't use another stupid centralized shit-site. Try a fedi server. Follow some random peeds. Then learn to fucking code and host your own instance.