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Title is pretty self explanatory, in my life most of my family passed when I was young, father when I was 2, grandparents/aunts uncles when I was in my young teens. Now as an adult I am faced with the possibility of losing my mother, yes she is fully vaxxed (not looking for ridicule, I know the dangers and was not able to keep her from the poison), just looking for you know, advice on how to mentally deal with losing someone close without losing oneself.

Title is pretty self explanatory, in my life most of my family passed when I was young, father when I was 2, grandparents/aunts uncles when I was in my young teens. Now as an adult I am faced with the possibility of losing my mother, yes she is fully vaxxed (not looking for ridicule, I know the dangers and was not able to keep her from the poison), just looking for you know, advice on how to mentally deal with losing someone close without losing oneself.

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[–] • 9 pts

Grieve, accept it and carry her memory with you. She's not dead yet so tell her the things you would regret not telling her before she does. There really isn't more to it, everyone copes with loss differently just don't use her death as an excuse to be a degenerate fag and you will be fine.

[–] • 0 pt

Thank you, this helps put the moment into perspective. She isn't gone yet, there is still time to see and speak with her.

[–] • 3 pts

Just don't tell her what your username is...

[–] • 0 pt

That gave me a good laugh, I think her head would explode if she ever even saw this website. I don't even think the username would be noticed.

[–] • 1 pt

Get family history if you can. Add notes and dates/ locations to photos.