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Title is pretty self explanatory, in my life most of my family passed when I was young, father when I was 2, grandparents/aunts uncles when I was in my young teens. Now as an adult I am faced with the possibility of losing my mother, yes she is fully vaxxed (not looking for ridicule, I know the dangers and was not able to keep her from the poison), just looking for you know, advice on how to mentally deal with losing someone close without losing oneself.

Title is pretty self explanatory, in my life most of my family passed when I was young, father when I was 2, grandparents/aunts uncles when I was in my young teens. Now as an adult I am faced with the possibility of losing my mother, yes she is fully vaxxed (not looking for ridicule, I know the dangers and was not able to keep her from the poison), just looking for you know, advice on how to mentally deal with losing someone close without losing oneself.

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[–] [deleted] 4 pts

Everyone dies and it all comes down to what you belive happens after you die. The universe would be a truly fucked up place if this shitty life was the only one we got.

[–] 7 pts

That's it for me. I've buried one of my infants already. I'd have been much worse off without the knowledge that I'll see and hold her again one day before the Throne of God. And until then, she's in better hands than mine, for what safer place for a baby to be than in the arms of the Creator.

[–] 3 pts

My wife and I had to deal with 2 miscarriages that were 25 weeks in. It was awful. We now have a healthy almost 2 year old girl and another on the way. I cannot even fathom what you went through.

[–] 1 pt

I know it can be a bit morbid but thats how i feel it to be. If all we have is one chance. Better not waste it.

[–] 0 pt

Thank you, this helps to think if and when she passes there will be more for her in the end. I've never been a religious person so this perspective I've never considered.

[–] 0 pt

After life there is death, not another life.