Really good points, thank you for taking the time to go through them.
We would have to have the construction done from afar as we're several hours from where it would be built. That alone would mean there's no way for us to politely be up their asses. I think this alone means we should plan to buy when we move rather than build.
My father did a two hour away build. It was like multiple trips there per week, for like 6-10 months. They were retired.
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