Your part could be as simple as helping a White single father create an intact family for his kids.
The biology part is important, but that exact responsibility has been removed from your life, it's something you don't have to consider for yourself and you should never feel guilty or like you have to feel bad about it. You will never win an argument with fate.
Motherhood is for women not because it's a punishment, but because it's very important and only women are suited for it. I would think about your role the same way. How close to motherhood do you want it to be, and what are you the best at, what are you well suited for?
Even things like being an active part of this fight - help from women isn't necessarily bad, it's just not your job like it is ours. But that doesn't mean you can't participate in that as well.
Thanks for the reassurance, sometimes it feels like I've been reduced to effectively a tranny. Kids and even teenagers really like me, so I guess I could be an auntie or big sister to a child that needs one.
I try to truth pill anyone I come into contact with, and I'm good at doing it gently--focusing on and communicating only what the data shows, not using subjective words like "stupid, retarded, etc" even if the data does factually show something is stupid or retarded.
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