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Our traditions and culture are important and define who we are and where we came from. No one will ever protect your culture, traditions, and family for you. If you want yours to survive you must be it's greatest champion. YOU must be the hero of your family's line.

My family is a bunch of home brewers going back to prohibition with some of the branches. Every Christmas the entire family always brings or sends each other a cider, mead, beer or wine. They all get passed around and handed out and any new comers are gifted a all in one home brewing kit for the next year.

Political, religious, ideological, and personal grievances all get shelved when its time to hand out the sauce and its a unifying event that keeps us together as a community and provides a sense of membership for those that join our family through marriage, friendship, or otherwise.

Its a valuable tool and the fun, comradery, and competition it fosters ensures that extended family stay involved and invested even when they can not be with us. Equally it promotes membership in our common/collective culture, beliefs, and our morality as a family.

I have other tradition that I promote and I add new ones all the time but it got me thinking; what are your traditions, how do you foster family, community, and philia in your life?

Merry Christmas

Our traditions and culture are important and define who we are and where we came from. No one will ever protect your culture, traditions, and family for you. If you want yours to survive you must be it's greatest champion. YOU must be the hero of your family's line. My family is a bunch of home brewers going back to prohibition with some of the branches. Every Christmas the entire family always brings or sends each other a cider, mead, beer or wine. They all get passed around and handed out and any new comers are gifted a all in one home brewing kit for the next year. Political, religious, ideological, and personal grievances all get shelved when its time to hand out the sauce and its a unifying event that keeps us together as a community and provides a sense of membership for those that join our family through marriage, friendship, or otherwise. Its a valuable tool and the fun, comradery, and competition it fosters ensures that extended family stay involved and invested even when they can not be with us. Equally it promotes membership in our common/collective culture, beliefs, and our morality as a family. I have other tradition that I promote and I add new ones all the time but it got me thinking; what are your traditions, how do you foster family, community, and philia in your life? Merry Christmas

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My extended family used to play a huge ball hockey game on both Thanksgiving and Christmas. Some of us were good enough to play ice hockey at the collegiate level so it ran in the family. That's fallen apart as they've all diverged further and further left and my immediate family has been left behind.

Now we shoot trap and play bingo for hardware store prizes and wool socks. Someday I'll have enough boys to put together a hockey game again.

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I am sorry you have lost that tradition, it sounds like an awesome time and memories with your family.

Maybe this year bring it up and see if you can instigate a quick game for old time sake... You have to be the patriarch. Make it happen.

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Oh I still play with my dad and brother. My kids are getting there. We moved away from the extended family years ago and I decided to stop pretending we had anything in common when I assumed the family mantle from my dad.

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Be the Patriarch your family... every family needs.

You must build a table and invite them all to sit at it.

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Me and my Friend used to put on skates and beat the shit out of each other. I don’t know if that qualifies as hockey