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Not that I can't find a random side ho out there in the world, that would be easy. But it seems being a widower is a humongous black mark on myself, I've sort of just detached from people completely. Sure I could talk to people, pretend to be nice, but all I have in my heart is pain and misery. It's kind of what I've been doing lately, more isolation from people. I think my church has started noticing, but i still keep a façade of happiness, i just choose not to partake in the extra stuff or stay around too long. All I feel is resentment and hatred towards those happy looking families. Part of me thinks I should start drinking again, sure its not the perfect solution, but what the fuck does it matter anymore? Nobody seemed to care when my wife died, they were all too busy counting the dollar bills or using her death as a pariah for their own cause. And then I think to myself, what if I die and leave some woman in the same predicament? How am I not being selfish with my own desires?

Not that I can't find a random side ho out there in the world, that would be easy. But it seems being a widower is a humongous black mark on myself, I've sort of just detached from people completely. Sure I could talk to people, pretend to be nice, but all I have in my heart is pain and misery. It's kind of what I've been doing lately, more isolation from people. I think my church has started noticing, but i still keep a façade of happiness, i just choose not to partake in the extra stuff or stay around too long. All I feel is resentment and hatred towards those happy looking families. Part of me thinks I should start drinking again, sure its not the perfect solution, but what the fuck does it matter anymore? Nobody seemed to care when my wife died, they were all too busy counting the dollar bills or using her death as a pariah for their own cause. And then I think to myself, what if I die and leave some woman in the same predicament? How am I not being selfish with my own desires?

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Same question was asked 2 months ago.

Really weird that 2 guys would independently think this. (I'll assume that you are both legit people with legit questions, and not fake. I take stuff at face value here.)

But, that makes me wonder what BS society is feeding men that both of you would think so little of yourselves.

I guess it is part of the plan to destroy the family - make women useless and make men hate themselves. And, thereby, it is our duty to fight that with all of our strength, will, and soul.

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Voat had a series of accounts that told a familiar story about his wife being in prison and asking if it was okay for their 13/14/15 year old (the age kept changing) daughter visiting her. He kept changing up some of the story and the dates/ages/details always contradicted what his claims were. I too noticed this 'widower' story popping up too frequently on Poal and wondered if this is the same LARP from Voat with a new angle. It doesn't sound organic and it is coming from more than one account.

I'm pretty sure this is bullshit from some retard like TheAmerican (GhostSkin, BigTrucker, My10thAccount, 99887766, GishKnots, etc from back on Voat). I guess some people just have nothing else going on in life that they make up stories like this to get attention or waste people's time so they can have something to do. It just doesn't sound in the least bit real. It's just another LARPing faggot with no friends and too much time on his hands.