Ooo, I knew one. He was borderline and manipulative as fuck, never took responsibility for anything, was the victim in every possible scenario, and eventually developed cancer and other severe health issues due to bingeing drugs and having tons of abusive push-the-limits-of-the-human-body gay sex. Dunno if he is still alive, if he is, he is likely homeless but somehow too "proud" to ask for help or face his emotional issues. Children, especially young men, need non-crazy male role models in their lives who can guide them to adulthood.