It is not a red flag. My wife's son was 4 when I took over he is 16 has a business, rides dirtbikes, fishes. Like most of today's he lazy though. Love my lady she's amazing . Wouldn't trade her for the world, she made me from drunk druggie to the strong dependable security she needs today. I did let her shape me some as she's very intelligent great breeding stock and just worth keeping. I have molded her to a based as woman. She's a direct desendant of Nicholas II her other sides Scots. Very strong minded so teaching was a challenge but now while sees all the truth and wants what 8 want. She is why we moved and will move again for so small it ain't funny. She wants to get very backwoods, your welcome fellas I raise em right. her ex cheated with a half pajeet half Trinidad nigger and for money she's loaded. She was even Obama money advisor so she says. Has military contracts, couple condos she's a rich nigger smh.