Dude, you have no idea what you're about to get into. Child rearing is fucking difficult, it pushes every relationship past it's limits. It's not some stupid abstract to the femoid mind, it's real life difficult. Right now your girl friend is venerable and feeling awful. She needs commitment from you, protection from you. It's not some stupid weak women stuff. It's real life.
This child birth will affect her body forever, and will risk killing her. It's seriously a big deal. How is she supposed to trust you to help her make medical decisions when you won't even put a ring on it? Trust is earned over time, and you're wasting time right now.
Quit finding excuses to write people off and do the right thing!
I'm not the OP. Been there, doing that. I'm married, happily, with kids. You are preaching to the choir.
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