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Who pays the support? Whoever works more hours? Whoever has custody of the child for fewer days out of the week?

Who pays the support? Whoever works more hours? Whoever has custody of the child for fewer days out of the week?

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[–] 2 pts

I know of several men that have been granted full custody and whose exes have been court ordered to pay support, alas none have ever received a payment. The types of women that fail to maintain custody, usually cannot maintain employment and often find other men to pay their way through life. Best of luck.

[–] 6 pts (edited )

Yep. My ex lost custody after she was found to be driving drunk with my kids in the car. It's funny that that's what it took for me to get them finally. Not the fact she took them from me for 10 months while not allowing me to see them. It wasn't the drugs in the house or the guy she was with dealing drugs in front of my kids. Herion and coke was the drugs of choice not that pussu weed shit. Nope. None of that. She has to pay child support but I've never seen a dime. The system is so screwed up that she still gets the kids for holidays and spring break which pisses me odd because I don't get to have fun times on vacation with my kids because she gets them when they are on school breaks. But at least I have them.

[–] 2 pts

Doesn’t the state make payments in her stead and then go after her for the money?

[–] 1 pt

Nope. Seems males only get that treatment.

[–] 1 pt

His own taxes pay his child support.

[–] 1 pt

You'd think. I got tired of wasting my money for 5 years. But if I don't have them to her I know I'm back in court.

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[–] 0 pt

That's kinda what I was figuring. I don't have any children of my own, I just realized that I didn't know a single man who had ever received a child support payment.