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Who pays the support? Whoever works more hours? Whoever has custody of the child for fewer days out of the week?

Who pays the support? Whoever works more hours? Whoever has custody of the child for fewer days out of the week?

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[–] 2 pts

It's happened I know several women who pay child support.

[–] 2 pts

I know of several men that have been granted full custody and whose exes have been court ordered to pay support, alas none have ever received a payment. The types of women that fail to maintain custody, usually cannot maintain employment and often find other men to pay their way through life. Best of luck.

[–] 6 pts (edited )

Yep. My ex lost custody after she was found to be driving drunk with my kids in the car. It's funny that that's what it took for me to get them finally. Not the fact she took them from me for 10 months while not allowing me to see them. It wasn't the drugs in the house or the guy she was with dealing drugs in front of my kids. Herion and coke was the drugs of choice not that pussu weed shit. Nope. None of that. She has to pay child support but I've never seen a dime. The system is so screwed up that she still gets the kids for holidays and spring break which pisses me odd because I don't get to have fun times on vacation with my kids because she gets them when they are on school breaks. But at least I have them.

[–] 2 pts

Doesn’t the state make payments in her stead and then go after her for the money?

[–] 1 pt

Nope. Seems males only get that treatment.

[–] 1 pt

His own taxes pay his child support.

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You'd think. I got tired of wasting my money for 5 years. But if I don't have them to her I know I'm back in court.

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That's kinda what I was figuring. I don't have any children of my own, I just realized that I didn't know a single man who had ever received a child support payment.

[–] 2 pts

I won custody of my children with my first wife. 20 years later, I acted as my own attorney and won custody of my children from my second wife.

Both times I received child support from my exes, though the amount was quite a bit lower than what a man would be required to pay.

[–] 2 pts

But women's income is 10% less than a man's reeEEEEE!!!!

[–] 2 pts (edited )

Back in the '90s, 1st wife paid $115/child/mo.

Over last ten years, 2nd wife paid $303/child.

In 2008, there was a very brief period (less than a month) when she had run off with the kids to another state and established child support from me, and they were demanding I pay $1000/child.

[–] 2 pts

Whoever has custody gets support. I had 2 friends back in the Army that the ex wife not only was on the hook for child support but during the divorce, because they made more money than them, had to pay spousal support.

[–] 2 pts

It should be 50/50 for 18 years unless a parent is deceased.

[–] [deleted] 2 pts

Yep, I know one. Co-worker's ex-wife gave up the young child to the husband. Child not so young that it didn't understand completely what the mother had just done to them. Apparently, she wanted total degenerate freedom so badly she apparently had no protest in being ordered to pay child support. It's just him and his kid now.

Losing your mother to accident or illness is one thing. Being abandoned by your mother at a young age where you're very conscious about exactly what happened must be a whole other world of fucked up I wouldn't know about.

I've known the guy for 7 years. Very square kind of guy, responsible, good father, good work ethic. Never a sign of abusiveness, never an accusation of it.

[–] 2 pts

Thats heartbreaking. Good for him. I know this inbred chick who had a child, and gave it to her mother to raise, treating the infant like her sister because she "felt no emotional attachment to it."

[–] 0 pt

What causes a woman to abandon her family just like that? Is nigger dick that good?

The guy is pretty beta.. okay REALLY beta... but that doesn't mean him or his son deserve that bullshit.

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Generally, you pay for the time you are not actively supporting the child.

Example; if each parent has 50/50, then neither parent pays child support.

If one parent has 75% and the other has 25% custody, then the parent with 25% pays for 25% of the time they are not with the child.

If a parent has 100% custody, the other parent pays for 100% of the time.

It's hard to get a parent to have 0% custody. Generally, this is only in cases of abuse.

The system creates an incentive for parents to fight about money using the child as a tool. It's unfortunate.

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Yes, but she has to be a celebrity or a high-power executive.

I also know a Jew who impregnated a Black woman who made like $90K a year and he somehow weaseled his child support down to like $33 a week.

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I'm surprised the Jew didn't offer to eat the child for free instead.

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She's supposed to. Thing is she has no valuable skills, so I get drip fed a $10 a fortnight maybe. In 10 years she's contributed not even 3k Aussie.

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Its supposed to be a percentage of income right?