Also, is it really necessary to have the same views on every single thing? Part of why you have a partner is for differing views. I can understand why people would believe something like that. Barring solid evidence, it's all a murky world where the only honest position to hold is that you don't really know, and these various possibilities each have evidence behind them. It also doesn't really matter for day-to-day decisions.
Yes, nailed it. Some of these guys commenting might not have ever been married.
Trust me....those of us so blessed are thankful not to have to deal with the neverending BS that is likely behind why wives outlive hubbies.
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