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I’m getting made fun of for saying this. It’s ‘normal’ for men to watch it, but if I went off and looked at random dicks I’m pretty sure my husband would be jealous. I would feel like I was cheating too. I faked being fine with it, admitted I wasn’t finally. Yet I’m a joke for suggesting porn is wrong, and it’s ok to tell all our friends and family I got upset about it. They laughed, they don’t get it. I figured someone on here would understand what I’m getting at even though many disagree. I wasn’t gonna bother asking this but the whole world IRL knows anyway. So what’s your opinion, is it wrong to watch porn? Why or why not?

I’m getting made fun of for saying this. It’s ‘normal’ for men to watch it, but if I went off and looked at random dicks I’m pretty sure my husband would be jealous. I would feel like I was cheating too. I faked being fine with it, admitted I wasn’t finally. Yet I’m a joke for suggesting porn is wrong, and it’s ok to tell all our friends and family I got upset about it. They laughed, they don’t get it. I figured someone on here would understand what I’m getting at even though many disagree. I wasn’t gonna bother asking this but the whole world IRL knows anyway. So what’s your opinion, is it wrong to watch porn? Why or why not?

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Do you think Lust doesn't exist or something? You think Lust seriously has nothing to do with porn? It has nothing to do with spamming, it's a genuine question because I'm incredibly confused by your lack of ability to make simple conclusions and connections based on what I've said with regards to pornography. You seem to be trying to silo porn from lust, which is impossible.

First what is pornography:

"Pornography consists in removing real or simulated acts from the intimacy of the partners, in order to display them deliberately to third parties. It offends against chastity because it perverts the conjugal act, the intimate giving of spouses to each other. It does grave injury to the dignity of its participants (actors, vendors, the public), since each one becomes an object of base pleasure and illicit profit for others. It immerses all who are involved in the illusion of a fantasy world. It is a grave offense."

What is lust:

it is “the inordinate craving for, or indulgence of, the carnal pleasure which is experienced in the human organs of generation.”

You can crave and indulge in sins of lust even by thought.

Pornography is both of these things, consenting to lustful thought, and physical act of spilling your seed, and on top of that, viewing the dehumanization and destruction of dignity of the human person by reducing them to the object of base carnal pleasure via a picture, magazine or video in an immodest and exploitative manner.

Don't bother replying to me anymore. I've made my case perfectly and abundantly clear.