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I work out, have a good amount of money, relatively good looking by white standards. However, everywhere i look, it's one of two types of women. The first one look like , and completely dumb as bricks. The second is post 30s, and somehow they all look like like . My options are limited. And churches have virtually no women in them, the ones there are usually married from a very young age. Ideas?

I work out, have a good amount of money, relatively good looking by white standards. However, everywhere i look, it's one of two types of women. The first one look like [this](https://i.4cdn.org/b/1633530739735.jpg), and completely dumb as bricks. The second is post 30s, and somehow they all look like like [this](https://image.cnbcfm.com/api/v1/image/105999673-1562087336516gettyimages-1151688822.jpeg?v=1562087386). My options are limited. And churches have virtually no women in them, the ones there are usually married from a very young age. Ideas?

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Yes goy, sleep around goy, it’s better for your future marriage, goy

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The gentleman is neither a virgin nor a woman. These are abnormal circumstances and abnormal advice is absolutely on the table. OP is a big boy and will disregard it if he sees fit.

But no, the problem is that the dynamic you refer to here is extremely real--previous partners leave their mark, often in ways that we don't realize until we're inflicting it on a new partner. It is precisely because people's pasts matter that OP might benefit from a rebound with some post-wall, "child-free by choice" lost cause. Let her live in the shadow of OP's wife's ghost until OP can tidy up his mind.

THEN take a swing at virtuous women.