What do you feel like?
Not fucking good, I had a decent job at an areospace company for over 2 and half years and just kind of snapped. No I'm so fucked and have been and am at the point where I just can't stop drinking without serious pysical problems. EDIT: I KNEW people who had not had job in 5 years and made more money than me on unemployment, maybe my job wasnt that good.
Yeah I started drinking after they killed half my wife's family and locked us down last year.
It's ok to dip your toes in the devil's water now and again, but it's time to get up now.
1 most important - Go to the woods and start walking/running. Do as much as you can the first day, then get there again the second day a do a little More. KEEP GOING
2 second most important - Go to a gym and start lifting weights. Look up routines online or hire a trainer, just lift. If you can afford gym with hot tub and steam / sauna then do it. Reward your lift with hot tub soak. KEEP GOING
Those two things alone are necessary 6 days per week for any man to not go insane.
3 also important - find a good Church of any denomination you like and start going there. Make sure the leader is not a pozzed hypocrite. You will be around spirit and people working towards God. You will feel better. KEEP GOING
4 optional - get a dog and train him well. They really do make things better.
Have dog, but not trained. Personally, I prefer him this way. In a SHTF scenario, my dog is both a protection dog and a shed dog, and his bark is powerful enough to deter even the dumbest of niggers. I don't want a passive dog who eats bacon all day and sleeps
We don't want to see another Poalr bear go. Stay with us man, we are all really fucking hurt and in a position similar to yours, some worse some not, none of us are brave enough to show it like you but we just keep going and suppress those feelings. We are ALL in this together.
Having a drinking problem can kill you. Correcting it is your first order of business. Escape monotony at all costs. Explore how drinking hurts you and how it affects your relationships. Do you feel unmotivated because of your drinking, or do you drink because you're unmotivated? When has drinking made anything easier for you? Do you feel healthier when drinking? Do people enjoy being around you when you're drunk? How many of your friends do you drink with and how often? When was the last time you did something fun without drinking? How often do you choose drinking over things that are more likely to help you prosper? If you had an older brother, would he confront you about how often you drink? What about your dad?
You can stop drinking. Even though drinking isn't always a bad thing, it tends to amplify our other problems. Drink to celebrate, to enjoy company. Drinking to numb feelings you aren't comfortable with is self-harm. You wouldn't stab yourself, would you?
You can correct this behavior. Building discipline is your first step. If you'd like to talk more, feel free to DM me.
Another book recommendation: "the easy way to quit drinking" by Allen Carr
What're you gonna do now?
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