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Long story short, wtf to do. Realize I don’t have any skills, A job that pays well but I dread. Want to move closer to wife’s family and start having kids but stuck in a renting loop, too much debts, one income. Idk what to do at this point. What skills could I possibly learn? Computer stuff? Hands on? How tf am I supposed to work full time pay down debt and try and get some land closer to family? Constant anxiety regarding my town getting worse and trashier. Idk just ranting.

Long story short, wtf to do. Realize I don’t have any skills, A job that pays well but I dread. Want to move closer to wife’s family and start having kids but stuck in a renting loop, too much debts, one income. Idk what to do at this point. What skills could I possibly learn? Computer stuff? Hands on? How tf am I supposed to work full time pay down debt and try and get some land closer to family? Constant anxiety regarding my town getting worse and trashier. Idk just ranting.

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[–] • 4 pts

We are trying to have children right now actually. I’d wager all the toxins in modern life is making that more difficult. Also why we want to live closer to family so we can have help and help them. Get some land and all that good stuff.

[–] • 3 pts

Don't have kids right now, you're not in the right place.

She needs to work full time. If you have any mechanical mindset at all, get yourself into a trade - electrical, plumbing, carpentry. One of those.

If you're not mechanically minded but you're pretty smart, do the coding route.

Failing all that, do a short course to get your ticket for excavators and other plant machinery then do civil construction.

Good luck, you got this - don't get her pregnant.