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Long story short, wtf to do. Realize I don’t have any skills, A job that pays well but I dread. Want to move closer to wife’s family and start having kids but stuck in a renting loop, too much debts, one income. Idk what to do at this point. What skills could I possibly learn? Computer stuff? Hands on? How tf am I supposed to work full time pay down debt and try and get some land closer to family? Constant anxiety regarding my town getting worse and trashier. Idk just ranting.

Long story short, wtf to do. Realize I don’t have any skills, A job that pays well but I dread. Want to move closer to wife’s family and start having kids but stuck in a renting loop, too much debts, one income. Idk what to do at this point. What skills could I possibly learn? Computer stuff? Hands on? How tf am I supposed to work full time pay down debt and try and get some land closer to family? Constant anxiety regarding my town getting worse and trashier. Idk just ranting.

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How are you stuck in a renting loop if your job pays well?

Sounds like your job doesn't pay well.

Lots of places are hiring right now and are having trouble finding people with skills.

Entry level non-skilled jobs in a field you're interested in pursuing might be the key for you.

For example "oil techs" or "Tire tech" at an auto shop. "Deburr hand" in a machining shop. "Apprentice X" for electricians or plumbers or HVAC. The jobs are out there. Some of them might even pay more than what you're making now. Some might even be closer to your wives family.

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Yeah that is a good idea. I have also thought about asking local electricians or plumbers or what not if I can follow around on a Saturday w/o pay to learn. My ultimate goal is to be as self sufficient and off grid as possible. Kind of a jack of all trades thing.

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I have also thought about asking local electricians or plumbers or what not if I can follow around on a Saturday w/o pay to learn.

You would probably have a better time applying for apprenticeship positions. People standing around asking questions or getting in the way tend to piss skilled workers off.

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Good to know I’ll look into that thank you.