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Long story short, wtf to do. Realize I don’t have any skills, A job that pays well but I dread. Want to move closer to wife’s family and start having kids but stuck in a renting loop, too much debts, one income. Idk what to do at this point. What skills could I possibly learn? Computer stuff? Hands on? How tf am I supposed to work full time pay down debt and try and get some land closer to family? Constant anxiety regarding my town getting worse and trashier. Idk just ranting.

Long story short, wtf to do. Realize I don’t have any skills, A job that pays well but I dread. Want to move closer to wife’s family and start having kids but stuck in a renting loop, too much debts, one income. Idk what to do at this point. What skills could I possibly learn? Computer stuff? Hands on? How tf am I supposed to work full time pay down debt and try and get some land closer to family? Constant anxiety regarding my town getting worse and trashier. Idk just ranting.

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[–] • 2 pts (edited )

The dirty little secret about IT work is it's about how fast you can learn. If you don't feel up for studying a ton in your off time I'd go air force and earn money while you pursue a skill set thru them. They raised the age for enlisted to something crazy like 38 iirc. Won't make you rich but might add stability and time to figure shit out. IDK your situation though.

[–] [deleted] • 3 pts

air force? fuck the military, you're suggesting that this poor poaler go fuck his life up fighting jew wars fuck you ya kike

[–] • 1 pt

I chose airforce for a reason. It's less dangerous than roofing and there is very little social net or support structure for white men in America. You don't wanna drone kids... then don't drone kids...

I'll concede I don't know his life, but if ever there was a good time to enlist it's prob right after the longest war in US history.

[–] • 2 pts

Moving closer to family cause older I get more I realize that is what matters most. Military would move me away. If I was younger maybe. Also looking for brotherhood. Which I thought my current job would have but it is worse than high school cliques.