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I took everyone's advice, and went for the sane kernels of normalcy from my last post. I ended up baking waffles for my church and talking to the one girl i like, except i may have hit a tiny snag. See she's around 17-18, and im around early 30s. Part of me wonders if that large of an age gap matters? She's very Christian, not corrupted, most likely a virgin since she never left the church and is still homeschooled. So i dont really see a downside outside the asking the parents barrier, and waiting until marriage for sex. , we may need you on this one

I took everyone's advice, and went for the sane kernels of normalcy from my last post. I ended up baking waffles for my church and talking to the one girl i like, except i may have hit a tiny snag. See she's around 17-18, and im around early 30s. Part of me wonders if that large of an age gap matters? She's very Christian, not corrupted, most likely a virgin since she never left the church and is still homeschooled. So i dont really see a downside outside the asking the parents barrier, and waiting until marriage for sex. @AnusExpander, we may need you on this one

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As long as your intentions are good then it's fine. You have zero right to go behind her parents backs or to have sex with her before marriage though. Now if she wasn't a virgin none of those rules apply, but don't be the guy that ruins a good girl.

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This is a church ... and i did mention i would talk to her parents so where does the whole going behind their back come from? The whole issue is that i want to date her and am unsure about the age difference, ill intentions dont come into the picture

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Perhaps you worded it in a way that wasn't clear. And churches are not always wholesome. If the age difference bothers you then don't proceed. If it doesn't bother you, then, proceed and I hope that you get a nice family.