When she's in her mid-twenties you're going to be entering middle age. You and she will be on completely different wavelengths. Don't underestimate how difficult that can be. Also, if you're a neat freak do not under any circumstances marry a messy person, or vice versa. Both of your lives will be miserable for decades.
A woman the same age as the OP would be past the point she should have started a family at, the woman he's looking at now would be a better candidate from a reproductive standpoint.
You can still have kids in your early thirties without issue.
This.
A coworker's wife of 10 or so years just left him. Why? They were like 15 years apart. He is now 50, declining testosterone, and full of grey. She's like 35, "okay" looking, still full of sexual energy. Of course she left him for a young nigger buck.
When I first met them, my first reaction was "something doesn't add up here.. this can't last.." Sure as shit, here comes the divorce. She at least let him "keep the kid," meaning she doesn't want anything to do with her ex husband or son anymore.
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