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I took everyone's advice, and went for the sane kernels of normalcy from my last post. I ended up baking waffles for my church and talking to the one girl i like, except i may have hit a tiny snag. See she's around 17-18, and im around early 30s. Part of me wonders if that large of an age gap matters? She's very Christian, not corrupted, most likely a virgin since she never left the church and is still homeschooled. So i dont really see a downside outside the asking the parents barrier, and waiting until marriage for sex. , we may need you on this one

I took everyone's advice, and went for the sane kernels of normalcy from my last post. I ended up baking waffles for my church and talking to the one girl i like, except i may have hit a tiny snag. See she's around 17-18, and im around early 30s. Part of me wonders if that large of an age gap matters? She's very Christian, not corrupted, most likely a virgin since she never left the church and is still homeschooled. So i dont really see a downside outside the asking the parents barrier, and waiting until marriage for sex. @AnusExpander, we may need you on this one

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This is a church ... and i did mention i would talk to her parents so where does the whole going behind their back come from? The whole issue is that i want to date her and am unsure about the age difference, ill intentions dont come into the picture

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Perhaps you worded it in a way that wasn't clear. And churches are not always wholesome. If the age difference bothers you then don't proceed. If it doesn't bother you, then, proceed and I hope that you get a nice family.