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I took everyone's advice, and went for the sane kernels of normalcy from my last post. I ended up baking waffles for my church and talking to the one girl i like, except i may have hit a tiny snag. See she's around 17-18, and im around early 30s. Part of me wonders if that large of an age gap matters? She's very Christian, not corrupted, most likely a virgin since she never left the church and is still homeschooled. So i dont really see a downside outside the asking the parents barrier, and waiting until marriage for sex. , we may need you on this one

I took everyone's advice, and went for the sane kernels of normalcy from my last post. I ended up baking waffles for my church and talking to the one girl i like, except i may have hit a tiny snag. See she's around 17-18, and im around early 30s. Part of me wonders if that large of an age gap matters? She's very Christian, not corrupted, most likely a virgin since she never left the church and is still homeschooled. So i dont really see a downside outside the asking the parents barrier, and waiting until marriage for sex. @AnusExpander, we may need you on this one

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[–] 5 pts

Rule of thumb, 1/2 your age plus seven.

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She's kinda close, 18 vs 22

[–] 5 pts

You sound like a predator. Wanting to bang a girl who is still being homeschooled and being scared of asking her parents if you can date her absolutely reeks of bad intentions. I hope her parents figure it out before you ruin her and go to the pastor about you.

[–] 5 pts

A guy the same age as her wouldn't be able to financially support a family so that wouldn't even have the potential of going well. There's nothing predatory about wanting a fertile wife.

[–] 0 pt

Did you read what he said, how he worded it? And a guy her age could absolutely support her with the right career path. Oilfield and pipeline guys make great money and some of them haven't even graduated high-school.

[–] 1 pt

I mean ... most women my age have severe critical flaws, either being divorced, kids from another relationship, or they are plain rude and have no manners. Plus in a church, there is a informal rule to date within the church. I did ask a fellow church member, and they said to just talk to her parents.

[–] 0 pt

Great, but there aren't enough teenage oilfield workers for all the eligible women. Fertile women than young men with high paying jobs so they can either waste the years they should be having kids or they can get with a guy 10-15 years older than them.

[–] 0 pt

Shut up you Zionist propaganda spreader.

[–] 4 pts

No. It doesn't matter. In fact its a natural state.

Women want maturity and leadership. Young guys really can't give it to them.

Men want some purity and submissivness. Older western women are devoid of it.

If you can get her go for it.

Anyone her who says you are too old or she is too young is following jewish propaganda to keep people from reproducing.

Historically western men always had much younger wives.

The worst thing is to have two young naive innocent clueless people together. Its one reason divorce rate is so high.

[–] 3 pts

Old enough to bleed;Old enough to breed.

[–] 2 pts

If a 30+ yo dude came sniffing around my 17 yo daughter, I would threaten him. Once she is older, say 25 or so, it matters less. My in laws are 18 years apart. Second marriage for both. Married for close to 40 years, but now mil is saddled with a diapered, deaf, senile old man. I do think she regrets it.

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Hate to tell you but 18 is very old.

You are the one with the pedo complex. You want to keep her a little girl.

Historically women married and had kids at 14 and 16. How do you think America had such a high birthrate?

Convincing men and society that women need to wait and wait until they are too old had been jewish propaganda pushed on you.

What you should instead be thinking about is encouraging your daughter to get in a situation to give you grandkids as soon as possible. Then you can treat them like little kids. Your daughter is a grown women. Stop being a pedo dad.

Instead look forward to having grandkids in a year. Secretly encourage the local boys in town. Secretly allow them to be in her room as if you don't know. Hope she gets pregnant. Poke holes in her condoms. Switch her birth control pills. Hide her morning after pills.

Then when she is pregnant move away where she can't have an abortion without telling you and ensure your family lines.

Trust me. If you don't she ll be childless at 30 and you will die off.

[–] 1 pt

When she's in her mid-twenties you're going to be entering middle age. You and she will be on completely different wavelengths. Don't underestimate how difficult that can be. Also, if you're a neat freak do not under any circumstances marry a messy person, or vice versa. Both of your lives will be miserable for decades.

[–] 0 pt

A woman the same age as the OP would be past the point she should have started a family at, the woman he's looking at now would be a better candidate from a reproductive standpoint.

[–] 0 pt

You can still have kids in your early thirties without issue.

This.

A coworker's wife of 10 or so years just left him. Why? They were like 15 years apart. He is now 50, declining testosterone, and full of grey. She's like 35, "okay" looking, still full of sexual energy. Of course she left him for a young nigger buck.

When I first met them, my first reaction was "something doesn't add up here.. this can't last.." Sure as shit, here comes the divorce. She at least let him "keep the kid," meaning she doesn't want anything to do with her ex husband or son anymore.

[–] 1 pt

If she's legal go for it.

[–] 1 pt

When I was 30, I dated a gorgeous Swedish gal who was 19. We had absolutely nothing in common. She was very dumb, and a dud in the sack. All she had was very good looks. It lasted 3 months.

Stick with someone closer to your age...she will tire of her friends and family giving her shit about the age difference. Women just want to be popular, and cannot take criticism.

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You sound like a Groomer OP.

[–] 1 pt

OP may be from India or Pakistan.

[–] 0 pt

If she shows interest in you, talk to her parents.

[–] 2 pts

She's been talking to me a lot more, complimented my baked waffles (actual waffles, not a euphemism for anything), keeps smiling at me, and i caught her staring at me a lot. Parents it is. Im bribing them with pastries and a used loaner car i have no use for to get on their good side

[–] 0 pt

18 is the perfect age to marry.

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